(finally be in the driver’s seat of your sex life!)
The most important thing you
can do to save your marriage is to save your sex-life.
This 6 Week Complete Program is a Gift
for You AND Your Marriage
ATTENTION:
Married women in long-standing relationships
pulled in so many directions that Sensuality has taken a backseat
(Swarmjam Coupon Holders: You will receive an email June 22 outlining instructions to pay the few dollars sales tax and where to sign up so you receive all of the call-in details!)
Do you avoid
sex with your husband because you just aren’t that into it anymore, but know he
doesn’t feel the same way?
Do you wonder where your
sexual energy went and why you don’t want sex like you once did?
Are you
tired of feeling edgy, uptight and uncomfortable when you start getting ready
for bed?
Well no more! This
course will put you back in
control of your sex life! It will change how you feel about
having sex or about not having sex. You will come away from this
course feeling more relaxed, calmer and yes, even occasionally
excited about going to bed because you will be the one making the choice
whether or not to make love - and will feel GREAT about that
choice.
You
aren’t enjoying your sex life because you aren’t playing by your rules. The key
to embracing your sexuality is knowing your Sexual Code, your unique
combination of factors - unique to you—that perfectly release your desire. Once you
discover them, you will have confident, honest, passion-filled
sexual experiences with your man.
You can
stop
dreading the idea of sex – ever again!
Is a
lack of sexual connection affecting your marriage and your relationship
with your husband?
Is a
lack of sensuality and desire affecting how you feel about yourself?
Are
you having sex strictly to satisfy your partner?
Now It’s Your Turn!
It’s time
to go to bed with a smile on your face –
when you
don't
have sex!
It’s time
to go to bed with your husband - and feel comfortable and easy with it!
It’s time
to feel right and content with your sex life – no matter how much sex you’re having!
It’s time
to feel good about the idea that he
may want to make love tonight – whether
you do it or not!
It’s time for you to feel like you
have a choice!
I see far
too many relationships suffer because of sex – or lack of. The number one cause
of divorce is sex issues – it’s even more common than money issues. Seemingly
wonderful marriages break down and fall apart because couples can’t talk about
their sex life and what is really going on in the bedroom so their sex problems
pop up as resentments and anger in other areas of their relationship. Before
you know it, they drift apart and either one of them strays or the gap grows so
large that they are simply roommates with no spark left.
We can reverse
this trend so it doesn’t have to happen in your marriage.
Wouldn’t
it feel fantastic to be able to go to sleep snuggled into your man with a smile
on your face and you didn’t even have
sex?! I can honestly say that I do that now – and you can too!
It’s time for you to feel 100% OKAY
with every single choice you make about sex!
Imagine a life where you have all the tools you
need to have a successful, happy, enjoyable sex life for both of you! Now on
any given night, your husband makes his move toward you, gives you his signal
that he is interested in having sex. And you confidently, calmly and comfortably
check in with yourself to see how you’re really feeling. If you aren’t in the
mood, you gently let him know (with your new
power tool of communication) and you snuggle together with smiles on your
faces (yes, him too!). OR you employ a new quick and easy solution that suits you both (again
from your shiny new toolbox) OR you
decide for yourself that it really
would be nice to make love since it’s been a awhile and you do love him and
love how you feel after making love. So when you are 100% ready (using more magic tools), you turn over and
join him in some sweet foreplay before making mad, passionate, love like young
lovers.
This
could be you…
Am I
promising that you will magically reverse 5, 10, 20 or 30 years of
having sex by someone else’s
rules in six short weeks? Not exactly but we will set the stage for your
success! If you commit to putting time
and attention to what is truly important to you, to what is truly important in your marriage, you
may see miracles happen right before your eyes – and his! You will be amazed at
how much change you can make in this short time by simply deciding you will make a difference.
What is Different about this
Course?
Nowhere else will you find a course like this.
YOU—not your husband and not the 2 of you together—but YOU are the secret weapon
in your sex life. YOU are the one who sets the tone. You don’t need your husband
for this. The wife alone is the first domino. Other programs are
‘couples’-based and are doomed to fail because the WOMAN hasn’t figured out her
own sexual keys— her “Sexual Code”--FIRST.
Why is that so important? Because women have spent
their entire lifetimes exposed to mostly negative mixed messages about
sex, sexuality, body image, and double standards (like “she’s a slut” and “he’s
a stud”). You have been bombarded by magazines, movies, books,
advertising, insisting that you look a certain way, act a certain way, feel a
certain way and have sex a certain way in order to be a ‘sexy’ woman.
As if that’s not enough baggage to carry, add the
fact that you’ve inherited a centuries-long legacy of shame, fear, and
embarrassment about sexuality from your mother, grandmother and countless
generations of women before them. Consider the horrors they’ve endured because
of someone else’s rules. You carry all of that in and around you!!
(And into the bedroom.)
Does your husband have all of this to contend with
as he walks past a construction site, as he takes his shirt off if he gets hot
in his back yard, as he struggles to reach his orgasm – NO HE DOES NOT!
You do. Because you’ve been accepting others’
concepts of sexuality, rather than your own.
And that’s why couples’ therapy is NOT the first
step. ‘Sensate focus’ activities, kissing exercises, sharing your feelings,
deciding together what you want for your sex life can be helpful–but only in the
short term.
The long-term healing must begin with YOU.
YOU must figure out what YOU love about sex, hate about sex, want from sex,
NEVER want from sex. YOU are the one who must be in charge. But you haven’t
been.
And that’s why you’re not wild about sex all the
time. And who the heck can blame you? You’ve ended up with a wildly distorted
view of what is ‘normal’, ‘right’ and ‘appropriate’ for being a sexual woman and
have absolutely no idea what healthy sexuality is. So you resist it all
together.
And what IS “normal”? Whatever YOU say it is.
I only have 2 rules for healthy sexuality: 100%
consent and 100% pleasure – by all parties involved and it hasn’t failed me in
over 25 years of helping women have fabulous sex lives.
I created this course so you would FINALLY have
the opportunity to figure out your own rules, your own Sexual Truth and LIVE IT,
so you comfortably choose how and when you have sex. THEN you can both be on an
even playing field. And THAT’S when the fun begins!
If you
are serious about changing the state of your marriage – which means the state of
your sex life – then join me and Get Your Sexy Back by unlocking your Sexual Code
Won’t it
be fantastic when you can choose confidently whether to have
sex or not?
Won’t it
be amazing when you go to sleep with a smile on your face –
every night?
Won’t it
be magnificent when you feel in control of what positions, for how
long and when you have sex?
Won’t it
be incredible when you turn your husband down and he’s okay
with that?
Won’t it
be wonderful when you start enjoying sex again?
This is
not a pipe dream! You can have all of this.
And I tailor-made these classes to fit your busy schedule:
Who has
time to listen to a class and then do massive amounts of homework when the class
ends? To ensure that you are as successful as possible, I have structured the program so you get
the work done right
in class! There will be no room for error. There will be a few assignments for
you to do at home (home play, not home work) but if you can’t do them all, you
will still receive a huge benefit from being on the calls and participating in class.
Here are some great bonuses you get
from being in this special class:
A follow up call 2 weeks
after the initial 4 session course to help solidify your progress. A lot of us
take courses and have wonderful breakthroughs but let it all go a few days
or weeks later. That’s just not okay in this case! This is information you
want to hold onto forever! So this follow up (including a graduation process) class will answer any questions that come up after the course, help cement your
learning and offer you another chance to resolve any issues that you
encounter as you test out your new tools.
PLUS, you will receive an audio download of a coaching
process I use designed specifically for you to enhance the
experience you get in the class so you keep on moving forward on
your own.
Plus you have the chance to stay
connected to the women you ‘meet’ in the virtual class in a buddy up
situation, so you feel supported and maintain that kinship of sharing of
your challenges and wins with women who truly understand. I’m sure you’ve
experienced the incredible synergy and wisdom of a circle of women. I don’t
believe there is anything more powerful.
AND because the course is offered online you can maintain as much
‘anonymity’ as you wish!
PLUS, I am slashing the cost
of my one-on-one coaching
during the entire program (all the way up to the bonus follow up call) so
if you feel you need further support to achieve your next breakthrough,
you have it with my private coaching.
By the
way: If you can’t make one of the classes, that’s okay, too, because
they will all be recorded and you will receive access to the
recording. I must stress the value to you and to your marriage of
taking the time to put your attention on every class.
The
experience of being live in the class with the rest of us will serve
you much more than listening later, though if you must, you can
listen when you need to. You may certainly decide to listen over and
over to deepen your learning and I always recommend you do that
anyhow.
I invite
you to join me for:
“Get Your Sexy Back: Unlock Your Sexual
Code”
June 28 to July 19, and the Bonus
Call August 2!
(If demand warrants, we'll run a second class on the Wednesdays)
When:
Tuesday, June 28
Tuesday, July 5
Tuesday, July 12 Tuesday July 19
Bonus Call August 2
Each
class will be 120 minutes and will start at 5:30 pm PST (8:30 pm EST)
In this Course you will...
Discover
your sexual truth and
how to live it
Cleanse yourself of old, limiting thoughts and
beliefs around sex
Create your own rule book (literally)
Develop specific scripts so you
can gently tell him ‘no’ and have it be okay with both of you.
Get some romance "your way" back in your
life
Boost your sexual self-confidence
Break
the legacy of fear, shame and embarrassment you inherited
Begin a breakthrough conversation
that will change your sex life forever
Reconnect with the inner sensual, sexual, feminine
creature inside of you!
Bring control and choice over sex back into your marriage!
The most
important thing you can do to save your marriage
is to save your sex-life.
The most
important thing you can do to save your sex-life
is to first independently unlock
your ownpassions, systematically and permanently end your insecurity and shame and
fully
commit yourself to learning how to have powerful and authentic sexual
experiences your way
first, before sharing them with your husband.
This will
create lasting intimacy on all levels for the rest of your lives together.
My Promise to You
Part of
you knows there is more – more to your own sexuality and more to your marriage.
I pledge to you to provide a discrete, respectful and honouring place for you
to unlock the door and find the keys to your Sexual Code so you can Get Your Sexy Back and learn to
have powerful and authentic sexual experiences with your husband. The way it
should be.
I want
you to rediscover passionate sex, reviving your sex life so you have a juicy
intimate, loving marriage that lasts. And I believe that to succeed you must
truthfully love, accept and find peace within yourself, honestly living
according to your own ideals and truths. What is so great about "Get Your Sexy Back" is that it provides the exercises, the plan and the
steps to discover and accept your own sexual ideals and truths, bringing in
powerful, honest sexual practices that will give you a life-long passion-filled
marriage.
This
online course is for you if:
Now
that the kids are older or gone, you’re diving into new projects to keep
you “too busy” for sex.
You’re
letting your appearance go.
You
don’t want to be celibate for months at a time
You do want sex—but not the way
you’re having it!!! You want it to be on YOUR terms.
You
want to bring a new passion to your marriage
Why Now?
You can
certainly continue what you’ve been doing: dreading slipping into
bed; feeling guilty for rejecting him and resentful for giving in;
going to bed early so that you are ‘asleep’ when he finally comes to
bed, accepting the daily arguments; watching your lively sexuality
shrivel when you’re MUCH TOO YOUNG; allowing the love that was once
so sweet to fade away because ‘that’s just what happens in marriage but deep-down
you know where that's headed don't you? A future
of possible frigidity, deepening loneliness, endless resentment, longing you don't know
what to do with--and the possibility that you and your partner will act out that
longing with someone else.
You MUST sign
up for “Get Your Sexy Back: Unlock Your Sexual Code” now because you face a critical
"identity" choice: are you a woman who lies to herself that she doesn’t want sex
while passion still flows, unsatisfied, in your veins – or are you the
beautiful, sensuous, sexy woman exploding with confident sensuality?
You are making the choice in this very instant. Who are you choosing to
be?
I developed this
program just for you! When you Get Your Sexy Back:
You
will know clearly the magical combination
of needs and desires unique to you for your ultimate sex life
You
will finally be comfortable heading
off to the bedroom!
You
will anticipate (and may even initiate) love making with calm and ease!
You
will feel sexually self-confident,
bringing assertiveness, acceptance and fun to your sexual experiences
And much
more….
So why am I the one
to help you?
I help
save marriages by working exclusively
with women because they set the tone for true
intimacy and passion in the bedroom.
As a Sex
Educator for women, a Professional Coach certified by the International Coach
Federation, and founder of an adult sex toy company in 1998, I’ve helped
thousands of women gain sexual
empowerment. I’ve written two books (G-Spot PlayGuide and Great Sex for
Hard Times), produced a DVD program helping women rid themselves of incontinence
and regularly appear in newspapers, magazines, radio and television.
I teach
sexual empowerment to women, when I could do anything else, because I am here
to eliminate the legacy of insecurity
and shame women have carried for centuries enabling them to finally express their sexuality honestly and
the only way to do that is for them to discover their unique truths about sex, create
their ownrules, then fully embrace them before confidently sharing--a process I teach
in my "Sexual Code"
programs.
After you
sign up, you will receive an email with detailed instructions for the conference
call phone in numbers and other pertinent details.
Special Offer
I’ve set the tuition at the very reasonable $497
My team’s jaws dropped when I told them that the
other day. “You’re saving their marriages for $497?” one of them said,
incredulously. “How many of your clients have told you that resolving their
sexual challenges and discovering sexual confidence FOR THE FIRST TIME,
and feeling empowered for the FIRST TIME was priceless to them??
You’re crazy, Kim.”
Plus the team found out I’m giving everyone a free follow-up call to wrap up loose ends and
celebrate and honour each participant. (So, that’s
actually 5 sessions for $497, not 4.)
And the team
was impressed that I’m giving the electronic copy of my G-Spot Playguide: 7 Simple Steps
to G-Spot Heaven for free--regularly $20.
The entire
program
for you is only $497. AND that’s payable in 2 easy payments: $249 now and $249 two weeks later
But that’s not all!
In
exchange for a
testimonial
and word-of-mouth promotion when it’s over--you will receive:
¨bonus coupon code for a one time discount of 50% off any of my online sex toys or
books to help you jumpstart your new sexiness!
Not a fluffy
bonus you’ll never use—but
a real, tangible one
To sweeten the deal I have one more
piece for you early birds.
Are you ready? It’s a pretty good one.
Sign up by Monday, June 6 at 5pm PST and
(Ready? Drum roll….)
You can bring a friend who
pays just
ONE PAYMENT OF $297!
You may not find someone to come
with you. DO NOT let the little voice in your head start to calculate the
cost if someone came with you. Don’t go there. It is “LACK” thinking.
You are not bringing
someone to cut down on your costs. You’re bringing someone to pay-it-forward.
And whether you find that person or not—you’re getting a GREAT deal.
Here's How To Order Right Now!
Swarmjam Coupon Holders: You will receive an email June 22 outlining instructions to pay the few dollars sales tax and where to sign up so you receive all of the call-in details!
You can order securely using PayPal or
your credit card by clicking the button below.
Option 1: Pay In Full
$497
Option 2: Easy Pay
System
Click the button below to
select to pay in two payments for your class. The first payment of
$249 will process today with the second payment of $249 going
through two weeks later.
Register for Get Your Sexy Back: Unlock Your Sexual Code 6 Week Online
Program
$497
(in
2 easy payments of $249)+50% off products! Register
by Monday, June 6th
5 pm PST: all above PLUS Bring a friend
for just $297!
Can’t make the course dates? No
worries! Sign up anyway and you’ll receive access to the recordings within 24
hours of each class.
You will
receive sometimes powerful, sometimes controversial and always valuable content
you won’t forget or hear anywhere else!
Your
decision today will impact your marriage tonight because the moment you
register, you’ll feel it: you’ll already be energetically “in the conversation,”
as they say. You’ll feel different and even start to see yourself and your
husband differently.
I
believe really passionately that we are here to create a world of love,
acceptance and peace with one another—and we can only achieve that when we
authentically love, accept and find peace within
ourselves,listening honestly to our
own hearts and living according to our own
ideals and truths.
It’s your
time now to find peace within yourself, to listen honestly to yourself and to
live by YOUR own code. I am honoured to walk this journey with you.
Be authentic and live a life of passion
whatever you do,
Kim Switnicki
P.S. If you
haven’t taken the leap (more of an emotional one than a financial
one, isn’t it?) I have a challenge for you. Go to bed tonight and
notice yourself. Notice how you feel when you slip into bed next to
your husband. Are you relieved that he’s asleep? Fearful that he’ll
wake up and want something from you? Do you have sex…but wish you
could have said ‘no’? Or do you actually feel a longing, and wonder
what in the world will ever close the huge gap that’s grown between
you? Notice and be aware. And here’s what I ask of you: if you feel
anything other than joy and peace and love for the man in
that bed with you… promise yourself right now that you will come
right back here in the morning and get in this class. Will you do
that? Can you keep this page open to remind yourself of this
commitment to your marriage? Will you do that for yourself?